I like wearing comfortable shoes. There, I said it!
I like wearing cargo shorts and t shirts and carrying a bookbag.
I prefer not to wear makeup, although do wear makeup for work, church and gatherings.
I scrub up well.
I am not slinky, I can’t get away with looking “cute” in my preferred outfits.
I haven’t looked cute since I was 4 years old.
I support liberal agenda’s on equality and have a right wing work ethic.
I have a sunny disposition with a serious foundation.
I choose to date fellas because I fancy fellas.
I am clear on who I fancy and who I don’t.
I don’t mind who other folks fancy in a consenting fashion.
However, how I prefer to dress throws a spanner in the works with regard to dating.
I look great in a dress, hubba hubba great.
I have no aversion to being ladylike.
My personal preference isn’t ladylike.
In mid-May I’ll be out of the excuse of still technically being married, the decree absolute will be through, I’ll be single again and won’t be able to use the instruction from my religion (don’t date until you are completely single, not during the divorce process) won’t be a shield anymore.
I don’t want to attract metalheads or lifestyle-out-of-workers.
So, I’m either inauthentic and get all gussied up or authentic and don’t date the people I like.
I have no solution to this quandary.
If you do, please feel free to share.