Have men become lazy or lost their confidence? I am chatting with a couple of folks who have asked about my relationship status, have shared some info about themselves, have shared that they want to carry on talking, have shared some of their interests and aspirations and there has been reciprocation from my side. They haven’t made an invitation to go out. They’re twits!
Here’s how it needs to go to get anywhere, folks.
- Notice someone you like
- Pay them some positive and non creepy attention
- Invite them to something
- Review whether you like them
It is not rocket science, it is a basic commitment pattern. Muster up some gumption, shake off the apathy, ask.
Not re-inventing the wheel here. Humans have been doing this in some form for a million years. This is basic hunter/gatherer stuff. It is likely encoded into our DNA. Best outcome someone says yes, worst they say no thank you. Nobody perished. Boys, start asking. Girls, don’t be mares.
If your thing is same gender attraction in any variation, someone ask, someone say yes.